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How did you differentiate between him just not being the right guy for you vs. My attraction to women felt like something totally separate from my marriage. I think the problems in the marriage made me open to my feelings for women, but it felt like discovering something that had always been true and seeing it for the first time.

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Eventually, it felt too big and too important to keep to. I decided to tell him as soon as I felt like there was no other option. What was the tipping point?

I felt confused, overwhelmed, and scared. It seemed crazy to start over in my 30s, with no idea where to begin, just as my friends were all starting to have kids.

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